Thoughts keep running through my cranium
Do nice guys really finish last? - I once was one of these individuals who continued to feel last in line in the kissing booth. Just imagine myself in Revenge of the Nerds, Part One, when the Alpha Betas had their booth in the Adams College Greek Carnival, I bought one ticket to kiss the girl, but one problem is that the better guy(s) keeps cutting the line. The nice guy doesn't even finish. The guy with the babyface, the guy with the nice car, the guy with the nice body continues to put himself first, second, and last even before you can even get in the line.
I say, don't get in the line. The mentality of the male race forces a downfall of emotions that continues to subdue their ability to find what is right in their life. Who knows what is right in their life? I don't know what is the correct way to live. I just live my life day by day. We have special characteristics that we enjoy as a hobby, fun, or boredom. Partaking in your daily doings, we never arrange what exactly what's going to happen in our life. The day turns our good, the day turns out bad, mainly because a simple incident that doesn't go your way. On the contrary, there is an occurrence that will lead positive upon positive situations to lead to temporary happiness. You can't believe in constant happiness (unless you are me, ha!, just playin').
When the San Jose Sharks lose, when Aivy is having a bad day, when I'm forced to rush, when money because a fatal issue, when things don't go as planned, when... These are some bad times that I must endure in my life to try and find the light that shines of happiness. We ALL have feelings that sets our emotions into a mixture that should not be ignored. The Sharks lose, maybe they'll win the next one. When Aivy is down, I am there to hug her and love her. When I'm rushing, I take a deep breath and tell myself that my normal pace is good enough. And so forth.
With 'Nice Guys Finishing Last' and knowing that happiness has its downsides, we make ourselves feel the way we do because that's the way we are. No one can change us, no one can make us feel differently, no one has the ability to enslave us in their revolving life. If all you nice guys want to enter that 'line', make a new one and take what you have to keep that line together.
Note: Does anyone understand what I was saying? I hope so.